Seducing a man goes through a few gestures and attitudes that will allow you to put the odds on your side if you want to crack him. Even if no man is the same, here is a little unpretentious guide to go into seduction mode.
An infallible thing
To find your man, you just have to take a good look at your surroundings … wherever you are! He will throw you insistent glances, but he will look away if, by chance, your glance meets his. And if you look at it for a few seconds, it will seem uncomfortable, move in an awkward way. It never lies: this man who discreetly watches you wants to know you.
Some facts about men and seduction
Man fears rejection
He has trouble living with failure, without necessarily admitting it. Some will need courage to approach you, because they fear that you will refuse any conversation … If he seems interested, and if he interests you, approach him!
Man is more embarrassed than you think
If you approach it, you will seem clumsy. It is his embarrassment that makes him act, or speak thus. If he uses stereotypes, don’t blame him. Not all men are quick-witted and alert. Some will use “pre-chewed” phrases that may horrify you. Scratch this unpleasant varnish, you will find, perhaps, a great partner.
The woman is sometimes “TOO”
If he lacks self-confidence (and this is the case for several men …), he will have difficulty approaching a pretty woman. He will no doubt say that you are in the “TOO MUCH” category: too beautiful, too attractive, too playful … And he will not dare to speak to you. It is also perhaps a reason which explains why the very pretty women find themselves, too, alone more often than in their turn.
No more whispers!
If you go out with girlfriends, avoid whispering. Wait until you are alone (when you return home, for example) to discuss this man who attracts you, because these “low masses” act like real snuffers. If you absolutely want to talk about him, do it in a normal voice … in his absence!
What men are looking for …
Do you like to!
To be very attractive, a woman must first love herself, with her qualities, her faults, her “imperfections”. A woman at ease with herself, who is good about herself, exudes seduction, happiness. It attracts attention and “good guys”.
Detach yourself from your exes!
As women look for men who have managed their past, men feel threatened by those who have kept a close relationship with their ex (s). Without cutting the bridges completely, put a little distance with your old friends.
Lighten your makeup and your perfume
Generally, men do not like women with excessive makeup and perfume. A discreet make-up and perfume, adapted to your personality, will have more effects with the male gender.
to be comfortable
When it comes to clothing, a golden rule always applies: wear clothes in which you feel comfortable and which benefit you. Overly provocative clothing can make men uncomfortable. What they notice is what you release!
Keep it simple
The “girl next door” – the famous “girl next door” – is often popular. Much more than dress, your attitude will reveal your simplicity and your zest for life.
It is by being authentic and true that men notice you the most. They like women who take their place, who converse with conviction and who lead conversations as long as these behaviors are natural and not exaggerated.
Have a conversation …
Someone who has nothing to say is not really interesting … either for a man or for a woman. Be informed. Address topics that will surprise the man in front of you. Intelligence remains a good asset of seduction for these gentlemen.
Take an interest in him
If there is a miracle recipe, it is this: take an interest in it. Men love being interested in what they do, their hobbies, their desires. However, if he only talks about him, without taking an interest in you, you will have a good idea of what you have to do … run away!
Observe him well
After approaching the gentleman, watch him carefully. If he seems to drink your words, if he performs the same gestures as you every few seconds, if he leans his upper body towards you, if he touches your arms, shoulders, knee, the bottom of a thigh, you may have seduced him. The non-verbal communication is very important in these early exchanges.
Leave him your contact details
Exchange your phone numbers or emails so that he calls you back. Wait a few days. If you don’t hear from him after five days, give him a shot once. You will see if he answers. If not, it might be best to forget it.