Have you ever had a date with a boring man, who tells stories without interest or who has cheesy catchphrases? He probably looked desperate or scary …
In this article, I’m going to give you some flirting tips, especially for women.
I will share with you five tips for winning the heart of a man with words.
Tip # 1: Be Playful
If you’re looking to win a man’s heart, it’s important to show him the fun and playful side of your personality. I’m not saying that you should be a fool, but rather that you should lower your guard a little and have fun.
For that, you need to be able to laugh at yourself and laugh at its jokes. You would be surprised to know the impact that laughter can have on a man! And if you are the one who lights up his day, he will be much more inclined to engage with you.
Tip # 2: Be mysterious
It’s good to have the impression of knowing someone… BUT it’s also important not to show them everything too quickly. Although it is tempting, it is important not to open yourself completely to it, because you risk running away from it.
So, instead of telling her your whole life, choose a few pieces, and focus on those. You are not interested in his best friend in primary school or in his uncle’s old farm … So only share the stories that will give him a glimpse of what kind of person you are.
If you can do this in a mysterious but flirtatious way, he will want to know more. Just leave out the less exciting details. For now, stay concise and keep his attention.
Tip # 3: Be positive
This advice goes hand in hand with the previous one: it is important to show your positive side during your appointment. This means that you need to keep the conversation light and playful.
Do not talk about problems with your appearance or your fear of dying alone. Rather, stay positive and talk about the things you love. Make sure to avoid any negative or tiring topic of conversation.
Pay attention to the tone you use, be happy and smile a lot. As the saying goes: “A smile is worth a thousand words”. And believe me, a big smile is a KEY to cruising.
Tip # 4: Ask questions
As you probably already know, men like to talk, especially if they are with someone who attracts them romantically.
Instead of putting yourself too far forward, be sure to ask him questions too. This may seem counterproductive, especially since we are talking about how to flirt, but you would be surprised by the powerful impact your ability to listen will have on him.
Letting him speak will not only show him that what he has to say interests you, but it is also a mark of respect.
If it was you, you’d avoid scheduling another date with someone who won’t let you talk, right? Well, it’s the same for him. So when he talks, give him ALL of your attention.
This means that you should ignore any messages or calls that you may receive during your appointment, and that you should keep eye contact.
If you look around or get distracted by something on the table, he will know that you are not interested. Be polite and focus only on him. Remember that flirting is more than just words coming out of your mouth.
Tip # 5: Be yourself
There is nothing more attractive than a woman who has enough self-confidence to be herself, in all her sincerity.
Truth be told, men pay much more attention to this sort of thing than it seems. This means that it is easy for them to spot a woman who is pretending; that is why it is so important that you are yourself.
For that, leave aside everything that bothers you and allow yourself to be happy. Keep in mind that flirting is supposed to be fun, so don’t take it all too seriously. If you can show him that you are comfortable with yourself, then he will be hooked in less time than it takes to say it.