The seduction is an art that do not master all to perfection. But this is by no means inevitable. We can learn to adopt the right attitudes in order to seduce men, and thus foster new relationships. As you will see, seduction is not just a mass of methods to use anything. It comes from you. Here are seven key steps to seduce a man.
How to seduce a man?
Most people think that it is up to men to seduce women, not the other way around. The latter are also under significant pressure. But when the man we covet does not notice us, it becomes essential to take matters in hand. Not all women know how to seduce, or think they cannot. However, seduction is not limited to the application of a series of methods, or to the exhibition of a dream body. For someone to be interested in us, we sometimes have to encourage them to do so. Our physique is an asset, but knowing how to use your voice, body language and attitudes is essential.
For a man to be interested in you, he must above all find you interesting. Not just beautiful or intelligent. He must succeed in trusting you through the way you approach and converse. The coveted man must, therefore, be comfortable with you, and feel confident. A seductress must lead men to take initiatives to review it, and possibly to start a story.
Ask yourself the right questions
When we try to seduce, we tend to want to go too fast. However, you often have to make some changes in your habits and behavior. Being attractive is not something innate. It must be understood that seduction is not limited to various techniques and methods. It comes first from us, from what we are and what we do with our qualities. To seduce, you must first know yourself by asking yourself the right questions. What is your motivation? What do you want to do with your free time? Do you have passions? Are you shy? What is your objective? What do you want to get?
Take a sheet, and list a total of ten qualities that you are certain to have. And ten is only a minimum. You probably have more. Cut out distractions and focus on exercise. Some qualities may be difficult to find, but we never take the time to really think about them. Whatever qualities you have, write them down. As you list them, you will gain confidence.
Then ask yourself what you are looking for in seduction. Find love? A lover? How is he? How would you like to interact with him? Would you like a relationship or more adventures? For what reasons? It is a work of introspection of which only you have the key. No outside help will provide the answers that only you know. To help you, imagine in five years: where will you be? With whom? In what context? What are your long-term goals?
Assert your style and personality
Each human being is unique. In seduction, the physical counts. It is even a very important aspect, especially if you want to project yourself into a long-term relationship. Your partner must please you both physically and mentally. As people, we all have our own style. But it can always be improved. Define your style. Your elegance will allow you to stand out.
Just take care of yourself. Go to the hairdresser, highlight your eyes with a few make-up features, wear clothes that fit your body and are adapted to your body type … Do not hesitate to work on your posture and stand straight. Good posture will help you to have confidence in yourself. Finally, if you can stand out with an element of style such as specific clothing, an accessory, jewelry, a unique haircut …
Forget what we think we know about men
As we mentioned earlier, we are all unique. Men are too. Seduction is therefore not a simple matter of methods. Otherwise, everyone would be able to seduce anyone.
The best basis for seduction is you. Forget all your bad memories with men, and all the negative points often mentioned by other women (especially in the movies.). Do not focus on what you think you know about men. And don’t think you can seduce all men: they are not all attracted to the same women. Like women, men like to be seduced, but mainly by attractive, elegant and confident women.
Learn to approach men
To seduce a man, you have to be on land suited to your personality. This allows you to be confident, on familiar ground. Seducing in the street is a simple way to get in touch with men. But most often, meetings are held at parties, dinners or other. For this, you must assume your interest in the person you are looking to seduce. Get started in direct contact.
At first, it makes you feel comfortable with men. This is important if you are looking to seduce one. Your first approaches can be timid, which is nothing unusual. But to have a real effect, you have to show confidence and tact. In seduction, many people tend to take steps and fail to achieve results. Then learn to showcase yourself through body language. When you can bring out your qualities through your attitude, you can play with the levers of attraction.
Get a first appointment
By following these four steps, you should be able to seduce a man and get the first date with the man who attracts you. And it is from this moment that seduction will become major support. The first steps were to get the attention of the person you wanted. Then, your qualities will allow you to go further and get closer to your objectives defined above.
Seduction therefore also involves conversation. Getting an appointment to exchange nothing with the other is equivalent to providing maximum effort for a meager result. Conversation is therefore the best way to break the ice and develop the relationship. What we say is just as important as how we say it. The seductive power of our voice is often overlooked and yet it is very important.
The intonation of the voice contributes to 38% of the conversation, according to psychologists. The meaning of words is only 7%. For the rest, it is the body language that speaks, since it contributes to 55% of the conversation. Seduction is therefore based on an ideal mixture between these three concepts, which must be learned to master.
Initiate physical contact
Contrary to popular belief, women are the source of first contact in 75% of cases. It is therefore perfectly natural to initiate contact with the man you covet. This contact can be a simple touch of the hand, arm or shoulder. If this contact seems spontaneous, it is most often deliberate. In this way, you show your receptivity and give the man an implicit authorization to take the initiative. This can result in an embrace or in taking your hand, for example.
Initiating physical contact while remaining in a logic of seduction is not easy for everyone. It may be perfectly natural for many, but a little less spontaneous for others. Initiate this contact only if you are sure you want to go further in this relationship. If the man you covet responds favorably to this first contact, it is quite possible that he will take the initiative.
Realize the relationship
As a rule, men are the source of the first invitations to go out, have dinner, kiss or even make love. Seduction often takes the form of the expression of one of these invitations from the coveted man. He is seduced. For some people, the relationship will end at this stage because it fulfills a possible initial purpose. Or because it is too fast or too slow for one of the two partners. Seduction needs some encouragement from everyone, but also a form of taming.
This last step therefore directly echoes the first. What was your goal with this man? An adventure? A lasting relationship? The majority of love stories begin after this seductive phrase. Sometimes it is instantaneous and reciprocal. At other times, it is up to you to do whatever it takes to get noticed by the man you want. We sometimes witness real thunderbolts. Sometimes the two partners get to know and get to know each other for months.