When you are not together, she makes a point of writing to you and asking you how you are, because she cares about you.
Some will accuse him of being too intrusive. Because it goes so far, some will call it to order. Some will tell her that she loves too much. In fact, maybe you are the one who will tell him these things. Perhaps you will tell her that she cares too much about you and your relationship and that she is pathetic. You might call her an idiot and tell her that she has to drop some ballast.
But what you don’t know is that if she likes it that way, there is a reason . If she loves so madly, there is a reason. What you don’t know is that it’s the only way to love that she knows, because that’s how she would like to be loved in return.
What you don’t know is that she is ready to give you everything, because she knows what it feels like to receive nothing in a relationship. What you don’t know is that she loves you madly, because she knows what it feels like to be unloved – and she never would want you to experience this kind of pain.
When you are not together, she makes a point of writing to you and asking you how you are doing, because she cares about you. She does it because someone completely ignored it in her past. She sent him messages that were read but still went unanswered.
Sometimes she had to wait hours or even days for an answer that she ended up hoping for. She does not want you to live in such uncertainty and it is for this reason that she does not care to write to you, even if you think that it is not necessary. Maybe even on this occasion, you are making fun of her …
She makes it a point of honor to learn how to cook your favorite dish. Or maybe she’ll drop by your favorite restaurant to bring you what you love and make sure you have something to eat when you get home from work.
She does it all for you, because she knows what it feels like to come home and the table is empty. She knows what it feels like to cook for yourself, despite the exhaustion of the day. She knows what it feels like to be forced to eat an unhealthy dish and hate it, simply because no one cares about us enough to prepare something that makes us happy. So even if you spend time criticizing her cuisine, know that everything she does for you, she does it out of love. She just wants to make sure you know she cares about you.
She loves you madly and she makes it a point of honor to be emotionally and physically available to you, whenever you feel weak or vulnerable. She is ready to listen to all your rants. She is ready to hear any criticism you may have against her. She is ready to accept all of your accusations, however painful they may be – because she knows how it feels when what you say falls on deaf ears.
She knows what it feels like when our voice doesn’t count. She knows what it feels like to be with someone who gives us the impression that our opinions and thoughts have no value. She knows what it feels like to be forced into silence and she refuses to let you feel the same. She wants to make sure you know you are heard. She is always ready to be attentive, because your ideas and opinions are important to her.
In the end , you probably don’t deserve the love she gives you, but she will give it to you anyway. She will love you in all the ways she wants to be loved – in all the ways she always wanted to be loved.
She is devoted and has her heart on her hand. She knows how it feels when you have nothing and she is ready to give everything . She refuses that you feel like you are lacking in love. You must therefore succeed in forgiving him for his tendency to overcompensate. If she also loves madly, there is a reason. And the least you can do
is love her as she loves you.