Falling in love and building a healthy relationship can be easy, but making it last a long time is not easy! Indeed, with the problems and obstacles that one encounters in life, it is not always easy to keep the same attitude, passion or even the same feelings as at the beginning of the relationship, which sometimes leads to failure. However, some couples manage to go all the way. Here are the signs that you will age with your partner.
A healthy and lasting relationship is based on love, trust, mutual respect and patience. These are the essential ingredients for living happily and above all staying together for a long time. But this is not always easy to achieve! Faced with the lifestyle we lead, the stress and the problems encountered, couples do not always manage their relationship well.
If you’re wondering if you’re going to be able to age with your partner,
read these signs:
Do you always want to spend time together and have no problem doing all your activities together? You don’t know boredom when you’re together? These are signs that show that you have a healthy and solid relationship that will be able to withstand the obstacles of life.
When you see the other happy couples, you never feel that little twinge in the heart which means “I want this too”, because you are completely satisfied with your relationship and are in turn happy.
You feel good with your partner and know that this is also the case for him. You are sure that you have found love, the ideal and never feel the need to compare yourself to others, because your story you live it your way!
Disputes between couples are the most normal, but it is the way the two partners manage them that shows the solidity of the relationship. If after your arguments, you manage to manage your anger and do not hurt the other just because you are pissed off at him, this is a good sign.
The fact of not being resentful is also something very positive in the couple. The more the two partners try to forget the dispute and reconcile themselves by settling the problem peacefully, the better they will live.
You help each other. A couple is two people who share everything, even household chores. Often women manage the house on their own, in addition to their work. But this is not fair.
When the two partners help each other, this puts them on the same level of equality in the couple.
You always have a subject to discuss. Whether it’s work, family, children, the future … you always have something to discuss with your partner. And even when it is not the case you do not get bored, on the contrary, you appreciate these moments of silence spent together.
You tend to defend your partner, and vice versa, when someone criticizes him. You don’t like hearing something bad about him and always stand up for him no matter what.
You are also very close to each other and are not afraid to tell you the truth and have no secrets to hide from each other.
When you have a problem, you always support yourself and try to overcome it together, without blaming yourself and without complaining. You focus all your energy on finding the solution instead of dwelling on trivialities.
You face the obstacles of life together, hand in hand, which gives you strength and courage to continue.
You don’t judge yourself. To each of his faults and in a relationship, it is important to accept the other as he is, so that it can be successful. Do not try to blame the other or try to change him, or worse judge him, as this will not make things happen. Respect is also a very important point in the relationship!