How can we avoid conflicts? What are the negative and destructive effects on our lives? What causes the confits?
Whether arguing with a partner, family member, friend or co-worker can be negative, destructive or hurtful. The simple fact of being in conflict with a person is very heavy and especially mentally exhausting.
It was really important for me to write an article on this site to help you in this rather embarrassing situation with others.
If you want to successfully avoid them for good, you should adopt certain behaviors in your daily life that will allow you to put an end to an argument. In this way, you will not only be a happier person, but it will be much easier for you to prevent conflicts.
What to do to avoid conflicts:
You must express yourself clearly and factually, without exaggerating or accusing.
Don’t raise your voice. Rather improve your argument.
He who has great designs does not bother with details. And thus avoids unnecessary arguments.
Peace sets in when in your eyes the other is looked at as an equal.
The most intense disputes often relate to matters where there is no sort of evidence.
The human race must emerge from conflict by rejecting revenge, aggression and the spirit of revenge. The way out is love.
– Martin Luther King
We would suffer much less if we realized that almost always the other does not act against us but for him.
Better than a thousand useless words, is a single beneficial word, which pacifies those who hear it.
If you are truly at peace with yourself, you will be much less at odds with your fellow human beings.
The best way to resolve conflicts is to avoid them.
The most beautiful love is made up of countless and tiny conflicts that are always resolved.
– André Maurois
To get out of a conflict without being flayed forever, it is simply a matter of never letting your words exceed your thoughts.
We will work together to support courage where there is fear, to encourage negotiation where there is conflict, and to give hope where despair reigns.
– Nelson Mandela
Think back to a recent argument and ask yourself what hurt you in this exchange? What can you do now to rebalance this relationship?
In the couple, when dissonances occur, do not blame the Other. Just express your needs, he can’t guess them.
– Laurence Maron
During an argument, only shout if the house is on fire.
The consequences of conflicts and what provokes them:
Many avoidable conflicts only poison our lives for no good reason.
Lack of love is the cause of all conflicts.
Any ill-treated conflict leaves consequences for many years.
– Simon de Bignicourt
Difficulties should drive action, not discourage. The human spirit will be strengthened by the conflict.
– William Ellery Channing
It is in the nature of men to quarrel over small things, although only the big ones concern them.
– William Shakespeare
A spark becomes a fire, a bad word becomes a quarrel.
– Henri-Frédéric Amiel
If we do not build a world of wealth sharing, it is a world of multilateral conflicts, that awaits us.
– José Bové
The weak have always suffered from conflicts between the strong.
– Boleslaw Prus
Speech said in an argument sometimes costs lifelong repentance.
– Etienne François de Vernage
There comes a time when you need to ignore unnecessary conflicts. Surround yourself with people who love you provide joy and well-being. Focus only on those good people who make you forget the bad. Life is really too short to lose part of it.
Men most often quarrel over words. It is for words that they kill and are killed.
– Anatole France
Where there is division, there is necessarily conflict.
– Jiddu Krishnamurti
Those who engage in quarrels and endless discussions for the smallest things cannot calculate the losses and the damages which result from it: they lose their peace, their joy, their friends, their health.
– Omraam Mikhaël Aïvanhov
The conflicts in the world are the mirror of our unresolved internal conflicts.
– Eckart Tolle
Hard words and poor reasoning never solve anything.
– Chinese proverb
Failure to perceive the deep humanity of others is one of the greatest causes of conflict in this world.
– Okakura Kakuzo
It is ignorance, not knowledge, which pits men against each other.
– Kofi Annan
Anger or hatred, in particular, is the cause of a great number of misfortunes in this world, from family quarrels to the greatest conflicts.
– Dalai Lama
Many do not realize that you have to control yourself here. For those who realize this, the quarrel will calm down.
The attachment to the idea that you have of yourself is what makes you suffer, and not the conflict, the insult or the contempt.
– Anthony de Mello
Do you frequently have conflicts? Then, what are you going to improve in your life to avoid them? Let me know in the comments below.