tenderness and a lack of sex are among the most common reasons for separation
within relationships. In general, little time spent together, whether in bed or
during leisure time together, is quite a relationship killer. I never believed
such statistics as long as I was in the infatuation phase. The world is pink,
the partner is perfect and the future together seems like a love movie with a
big happy ending.
DISCOVER EDGES AND CORNERS IN YOUR FAVORITE PERSON
love is a hormonal high-flying, which unfortunately ends after a few months on
the ground. Suddenly, the person who seemed so perfect to us is just someone
like ourselves, with all his or her faults, rough edges, and rough edges. But
even now is not the moment that can become critical for great love. Sometimes
it is the darned 7th year, sometimes it only takes a few years.
SEEMED TO SPREAD LIKE A VIRUS THROUGHOUT THE ENTIRE RELATIONSHIP
But what is
this moment I am talking about? Let me tell you about my personal experiences.
Nearly 4 years my ex-boyfriend and I were together when I first wondered if
this was it. The relationship I had always dreamed of. Lying next to each other
on the couch, banging series and occasionally chatting about how the day went.
For a few weeks, this everyday life seemed relaxing and to decelerate. But it
wasn’t long before paralyzing boredom set in. This boredom seemed to spread
like a virus to my entire relationship. After all, lying next to each other was
also the order of the day in bed. A sad picture for a love that had not changed
in my heart.
WE SEEMED TO
HAVE FORGOTTEN HOW TO TOUCH OUR FAVOURITE PERSON AND HOW TO HAVE AN EXCITING
think that this situation could be easily remedied. Let’s get down to brass
tacks and get going. But once the doldrums have crept in, she feels quite at home
in a relationship. From a couple who spontaneously fell for each other at the
beginning of love, they have now become a boring everyday couple who have
forgotten how to touch their favorite person, how to make advances to him or
her and how to have an exciting night with him or her now and then.
nights, which I only had with my partner at that time, when we watched a
captivating series together, right into the dolls. We rather dealt with the
love life of the series characters than with our own. This situation was
certainly one of the reasons why love broke up a few years later. Looking back,
I often wonder if we wouldn’t have had opportunities to get new peppiness in
bed and relationships. What I didn’t realize at the time was that it’s good to
allow new impulses and to walk paths together that may have caused uncertainty
at the beginning.
3 TIPS FOR
ESCAPING THE DAILY RELATIONSHIP ROUTINE
If I were to
run into my former self today, I would give him the following tips to prevent
an emerging slump and breathe new life into the relationship:
Talk! Communication is essential when something seems to be missing in the
relationship. It is not easy to express your own needs, but it does achieve
very good results. Simply out with what you always wanted to do and were afraid
of doing until now. Maybe in a conversation, you discover common preferences
that you were not aware of before?
Netflix! As banal as it sounds at first: Streaming services have a high
potential to kill the erotic factor of a relationship. It’s so nice and easy to
be sprinkled with all kinds of series in a comfortable bed and drifting into
completely different worlds. Who still feels like getting intensively involved
with the man of the heart?
impulses from outside. The world of love and lovemaking is almost unlimited.
But many relationships lack the foresight to allow for new inspirations. Not
every couple is enthusiastic about visiting an erotic shop together or browsing
digitally in relevant online shops. Being open to new things and being able to
accept impulses from outside is the first step in the right direction.
CHANCE AND LOOK BEYOND THE HORIZON OF EVERYDAY RELATIONSHIPS!
Do you and
your partner find it difficult to bring new energy into the relationship? Then
give yourself a push and try a TV experiment, which not only promises a lot of
fun but will also have a positive effect on your love.