Communication is the key to any solid relationship. Communication is the means by which we make others understand that we care about them.
Since we all communicate our love differently, it is important to always remember the definition of communication. But if there is one thing certain, it is this:
If a man really loves you, you will know and feel it. If not, you will spend your time doubting it.
Here are 10 things the right person will never make you doubt:
1. Whether he respects you or not.
Love is a product of respect. We cannot love someone we do not respect. Respect for his opinions, respect for his feelings, respect for his wants and needs.
A man who loves you and cares about you will always take you into consideration when making decisions that may affect you both. He will ask you for your opinion. He will treat you as an extension of himself – because that is what one is in a couple.
2. If he thinks you are beautiful or not.
When you find someone handsome, it’s not just physical attraction. In truth, when you love someone for what they really are, everything about them becomes beautiful. No man in the world should let the woman in his life wonder if he is attracted to her or not. A few well-placed compliments and a little attention to the little things do wonders.
3. Whether he likes you or not.
At no time should you feel unloved by your partner. That life becomes complicated and stressful is understandable. We often lose sight of the feelings of the other, in the course of a busy daily life and routine… This is why, it is so important to put will and effort in your couple.
No matter how busy or stressed a man is when he comes home at night, it is important that he makes the necessary efforts to let you know that he appreciates everything you do for him.
4. Whether you deserve his efforts or not.
You deserve the smallest effort a man will make for you and your couple. The right person will never allow you to doubt this.
5. Whether he plans a future by your side or not.
When a man has serious intentions, he has no trouble making plans for the future with you. Whether it’s the weekend ahead or the next summer vacation, the fact that he uses the word “we” is a clear sign that when he imagines himself older, he too imagines you. by his side.
6. Whether he supports you or not.
When a man offers his love and time to a woman, no conditions are necessary. There will be good times and slightly less pleasant moments. There will be unexpected challenges and situations. But he will stay by your side and be your partner along the way.
Of course, it is not as simple. This does not mean that you can disrespect, lie or deceive him. This does not mean that you can betray his trust and hope that he stays by your side because he has promised you his loyalty. These are the tests that you will go through as a couple and his ability not to go away as soon as things get a little complicated.
Any man can be by your side on sunny days. But the real test will take place on rainy days: will he be there to hold an umbrella over your head?
7. Whether you can open up to him or not.
Comfort in a relationship (good comfort, not the one that pushes us to stop making efforts) is based on our ability to open up and be honest with our partner – and this ability itself is based on the fact to know that we will not be judged.
A good man will encourage you to open up and share your feelings with him. You should never be afraid that he will run away or get angry in case you share something with him.
It means being able to be at the height of sincerity and the truth of what you are when you are with him.
8. If he wishes to improve and evolve or not.
Whether it’s learning new things, developing new talent, reading a book, or watching a documentary – a good man who takes pride in constantly improving will intellectually stimulate you and know how to keep your attention. He will do these things for himself, but they will also have a positive impact on your relationship.
9. Whether you are safe with him or not.
I always believed that one of the best compliments a man could receive was the following: tell him that you feel safe with him. It doesn’t matter if she’s attracted to you, it doesn’t matter if she finds you funny or the state of your bank account – if a woman can’t sleep tight with your fists, none of that matters.
10. Whether he is determined to love you or not.
Love is not a passive feeling. It is not just something that explodes in our heart like fireworks, and finally dies out as quickly as it has ignited. Love is a choice.
It is a conscious effort to get past the different pasts, to embrace the positive effect that our partner can have on us, to embrace what he can teach us about life – and what we can teach him back.
We don’t “fall” on love, it’s something that lifts us up. It is someone who raises us two, makes our paths converge and meet, to finally move forward on the same road together.
This road will be strewn with speed bumps, potholes and unexpected obstacles. It may not be the road you imagined taking. But be sure it’s the only road you want to be on, because the person you love will be next to you.
The right person will never make you worry, asking “Will he take the next exit, leaving me to continue my journey alone?” – Because he is determined to make the choice to love you. Every day.